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Sherry Gaba Quoted in E Online

Sherry Gaba quoted in E Online

Do Famous People Die Younger Than Other People?

Why this spate of Young Hollywood people dying? Is being in proximity to fame hazardous to your health?
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E OnlineYou speak of Brittany Murphy and Casey Johnson, who died at the respective ages of 32 and 30 under murky circumstances.

Causes of death in each case are far from conclusive, though reports indicate that a pharmacy of prescription drugs was found by Murphy's bed, including the Vicodin cousins hydrocodone and Vicoprofen and that Johnson had also battled addictions to drugs that may have included OxyContin. (She also suffered from diabetes.)

Let's also not forget that DJ AM overdosed on a combination of illegal and prescription drugs, and that a medical examiner ruled that Heath Ledger's death was due to an accidental abuse of prescription drugs.

But is Hollywood any worse than the rest of the country when it comes to hard living?

I have the answer...

And that is, apparently yes.

Well, not statistically, mind you, so let's look at that first.

When it comes to prescription drug addiction—which seems to be at the center of all the speculation—"it's equally bad around the country," says addiction specialist Dr. Clare Kavin of the Waismann Method, which has treated many a celebrity.

"It's rampant everywhere, because these are legal, prescription drugs, but you may hear about it more because these people are in the public eye."

Beyond that, however, there are factors unique to show business that definitely aren't beneficial to one's health, even that of a very young, otherwise hale person.

For one, there's the toadyism.

Most other parts of the country don't have as their leading industry one that involves so many "yes" people—minions so eager to keep their paychecks that they gladly enable their bosses, whether the activity endangers the star or not.

"There are so many layers of people between the celebrity and the help they may need," says Sherry Gaba, a psychotherapist who works behind and in front of the cameras on the Celebrity Rehab series. "You have people working for the stars who may or may not be supporting them."

(That isn't to say there aren't a few hopeless addicts in the janitorial supply business or hosiery trade, but, you know.)

Famous addicts also may hesitate to seek out help for fear of being labeled by international media as the next Lindsay Lohan—again, not exactly a factor among the civilian population, whose problems usually don't travel beyond their own towns.

It's too soon to say whether drugs played a key role in the deaths of Murphy or Johnson, but given how pervasive they are in Hollywood and how many times drugs have played a role in a famous person's death, I, sadly, doubt this will be the last time we hear about this kind of a tragedy.

 
Bette Alkazian Quoted in April Issue of Parents.com

She Refuses to Share

At playdates, your child won't let anyone near his toys, but he'll scream "Mine!" and snatch away his friend's playthings.

How to help: Around 15 months, kids begin to develop a sense of their own identity. When another child takes one of his toys, he can feel as if he's losing a part of himself, says Bette Alkazian, a parent and a family coach in Thousand Oaks, California. Taking turns is the easiest way to introduce sharing: Have your child and his friend each play with the prized toy for a minute to reassure him that he's not giving it up forever. Supply things that encourage cooperative play, like a all or blocks. If all else fails, try distracting him with another toy or activity. And don't forget to model sharing at home. If your child is hogging crackers, split some with his older sister: When he gives you one, smile, say "Thank you!" and then share yours. If you make it look like a game, your little one will want to join in on the fun.

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Source: Parents.com